Ask the Expert

Q: When I'm in a store, what is the best way to avoid being separated from my child? What should I do if it happens?

A: The best way is with planning and prevention -- the more communication, the better. Before heading out, have a plan of action in case you and your child get separated. Designate a meeting place -- for example, the information booth or food court at the mall or the cash register at a store. Point it out to your kids once you get there. Obviously, younger kids (under age 12) need to be with you at all times, but older kids may have more freedom to shop independently. Cell phones are a great way to communicate in public places.

A lost child should contact a uniformed security officer, a mother with children, or a sales associate. Make it clear that they must never go to a parking lot, where there is a greater risk for potential danger. You don't want your child wandering around moving cars.

If your child is lost in a store, find a manager and provide a physical description of your child, including the outfit he's wearing. Be sure to always carry a recent photo (preferable a headshot) of your child.

Nancy McBride is the National Safety Director for the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC). She is a frequent lecturer on issues of child safety and exploitation and is often a guest on television and radio programs dealing with child safety.